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Apr 16 • 3 min read

You’re Being Influenced Right Now


Imagine you’re hosting a dinner party and stop by the store to grab a bottle of wine. 🍷

You compare a few options—French, German, Italian—and eventually choose a French one.

On your way out, someone asks why.

You might point to the price, the label, or maybe how it pairs with dinner.

Then they ask a strange follow-up:

"Did you notice the French music playing in the background?"

Probably not.

But here’s what researchers found in a popular study: when French music was playing, French wines accounted for 77% of sales.

When German music played, German wines jumped to 73%.

And yet, 86% of shoppers said the music had no influence on their decision.

In today's email: how hidden influences affect our judgment, and how to make better decisions as a retirement investor.

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How to Make Better Decisions

As strange as that wine experiment sounds, it’s far from the only evidence that our decisions are easily shaped by things outside our awareness.

For example, in an experiment run by Daniel Kahneman, participants were asked to:

  • write down the last four digits of their Social Security Number; and then
  • estimate how many physicians live in Manhattan.

Those with higher SSN numbers guessed significantly higher—about 30% more—than those with lower numbers.

A completely irrelevant number quietly shaped their judgment.

In a study from Harvard, participants were shown colored dots ranging from clearly blue to clearly purple and asked to identify the blue ones.

At first, it was easy.

But as researchers gradually reduced the number of true blue dots, something interesting happened:

People started labeling purple dots as blue, even when warned and incentivized to stay consistent.

Researchers call this "prevalence-induced concept change," or more simply, the blue dot effect.

When real problems become scarce, we subconsciously start finding new ones, even if they aren’t actually problems.

What This Means for Us

These studies all point to the same uncomfortable truth:

We don’t experience the world as it is—we experience it through the lens of what’s around us.

Background music.

Random numbers.

Shifting reference points.

And today, our “background music” is the constant hum of the 24/7 news cycle.

War headlines...tariff uncertainty...AI disruption.

Each one feels urgent, important, and impossible to ignore.

And in the moment, it’s hard to believe they won’t matter long term, even though history suggests many won’t.

We’ve seen this before.

For example, shortly after the pandemic, a widely shared piece highlighted a strange disconnect:

People reported being generally satisfied with their own lives, while simultaneously believing the world around them was falling apart.

When you’re constantly told things are getting worse, it’s easy to start believing it, even when your own experience says otherwise.

Bottom Line

This isn’t about ignoring real risks or pretending challenges don’t exist.

It’s about recognizing how easily our perception can be distorted, and how that distortion can shape financial decisions without us realizing it.

The first step is awareness.

When you understand that headlines, repetition, and shifting reference points can distort your thinking, you’re less likely to react automatically.

The next step is to be more selective about what you consume.

Not every piece of financial content is designed to help you make better decisions. Most of it is designed to win your attention.

And the more often you’re exposed to alarming, urgent, or emotionally charged information, the harder it becomes to think clearly and stay grounded in a long-term plan.

A helpful question to ask is:

Is this making me wiser, or just making me anxious?

The more clearly you see the difference, the easier it becomes to tune out the noise, stay grounded, and focus on what actually matters.


📚 What I've Been Reading

  • Social Security Is Slowing Down. Here’s How to Get Your Benefits On Time (Morningstar)
  • Your Taxes Were Designed to Suck (Your Brain On Money)
  • Take This Simple Step as You Approach Retirement (Morningstar)
  • Problem Child: The Creative Crisis at Pixar (The Baffler)
  • Artemis II Journey to the Moon (NASA)

Thank you for reading!

Please reply to this email with comments, questions, and/or feedback.

Stay wealthy,

Taylor Schulte, CFP®

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